Diets that have you learn the science behind your own food.
Who in the hell has time to do all that? Who even wants to do that? And there’s another caveat — you’d think the more you know about science, the easier it’d get to know which foods are healthy for you and which are not. But it’s not — it gets more complicated because there’s a new study every week that contradicts another study from before.
Add that to the fact that one scientific study, by itself, doesn’t mean much (no matter how revolutionary) is a recipe for confusion.
But if you ask me, there is *for sure* a “worst” diet category in the world. “What is it?!” you may ask. Well, it’s this:
The diet that takes the most effort, energy, research, implementation and time.
You might be saying, “Well, that’s great news! I happen to find eating candy bars extremely easy and it doesn’t require much research!”
That’s why one of the main things I emphasize here is the psychology behind change and the formation of good habits (and the changing of bad ones).
When it comes to health and fitness everyone knows what to do. The amount of overweight people I’ve run into that know they need to lose weight and even semi-accurately know what they should be eating (but they don’t do it) is astounding. Really, freaking mind blowing.
Why Do People Know What They Should do, But Don’t Do it!?
Almost 40% of Physicians are Overweight – Medscape
Did you know that almost 40% of doctors are overweight? This is pretty much exactly along the lines of the general weight statistics in the USA – 40% of men and 29% of women are overweight (and a small percent are obese).
There’s an interesting phenomenon that exists in the world, which is this: Even if you gave people the exact step-by-step process to get fit and healthy or build a million dollar business, almost no one would do it.
Even with all of the information, very few people achieve the desired result. The path is there, all they have to do is take it. This is the reason why many physicians are overweight (see above – 40%) — they know what they should be doing, they’re doctors! But they don’t do it. So why not?
Poor (or no) systems put into place, aka bad habits already in existence
Resistance – when we see months and months of “hard work” ahead of us, we shrink back down into our chair and feel small. It’s easier to talk about what to do than actually do it.
Laziness (which is usually #1 & #2 disguised)
#1 No systems put into place, aka bad habits that are already in existence.
By far the vast majority of people don’t do what they should (even if they know what to do) because of bad habits. Look at the majority of dieters — we know we shouldn’t be eating chocolate cake and Oreos but we do it. Why? Cravings, bad habits, or we say “just this time..”
Business owners that have been in stale businesses for years do the same thing. They know they need to get out there and attend conferences, or try applying some new-found knowledge, or testing out business systems – but they don’t. Why? Every Monday morning they show up and do the same thing – check emails, go through spreadsheets, maintain the business, do a little bit of outreach.
They don’t put new systems in place. Monday-Friday happens by itself. Habits unfold whether or not we want them to – we’re programmed to do them.
This is an subject that few people talk about that more people should know about. Many times we know what to do but we don’t do it because of thinking something along the lines of this:
“I know I need to go on a diet”
“Alright let’s do some research…” (Does some research)
“Wow that’s a lot of information” (Feeling overwhelmed)
“Damn this is going to be a lot of work” (Feeling discouraged)
“Alright.. let’s do something today…” (Half-assing it)
…. And then a week later the person gives up
Resistance is basically a psychological issue — anytime we see a long road ahead of us, full of work and effort and time, we encounter massive resistance to it.
So how do you fight it?
First, you don’t ever think about the future. You do what it takes to fix things now. Thinking about the future process only builds resistance.
Third, you emphasize taking action over collecting more knowledge
Fourth, you take action every day (no matter how small)
These two bad boys: lacking systems (having bad habits), and resistance, are the main reasons why people know what they should do, but don’t do it.
So now let me show you exactly what you need to know, and then how to do it.
The Simplest Way to Eat the Right Food & Lose Weight All in One
Yay junk food!
One thing I promise I will not do to you is this:
Break down every nutrient, supplement, and tiny insignificant change you can make to your diet or lifestyle to live to the ripe old age of 135.
You won’t usually see me talk about Vitamin D, Vitamin C, B12, or other forms of supplementation. And although I cite lots of scientific resources, I’m not going to nit pick and go through 53 scientific journals just to support one point.
I focus on those big wins — correcting 80% of your lifestyle so you can see some massive benefits without the added stress and time that going to 100% would entail.
#2 It slows down the “time to action” — in other words, how easily and quickly you can act upon the advice
Ever opened a menu that had 135 options to eat, just for lunch?
How long did it take you to decide on what to eat? A long ass time, right?
The more information I give you, the more turns and twists there are in the road, the less likely you’re actually going to act upon one of them.
I want to give you simple, concise, straightforward info. Big wins. The 20% that needs changing that will produce 80% of the results. Follow?
#3 It takes too much thinking
Why the hell would you want to have to sit down and ponder for 5 minutes when considering eating a food? “Hmmm is this part of my diet?”
The one rule here is logic: eat food that looks like it was grown on this planet (and not in a factory).
So What Do I Eat?
Part 1: Awesome Foods -Eat As Much As You Want, When You Want
Drinks without calories (Water, Coffee, Tea). I basically drink coffee in the morning, then drink tea and water throughout the day. Coffee is fine, but for some people it can cause that kind of queasy feeling in the stomach. Always drink it with food in your stomach, and not on an empty stomach. Coffee actually stimulates the stomach to produce more acid – which is normally fine in most people, but if you have tummy issues, you might want to cut down or drink it less strong (heresy, I know).
Protein — Chicken, fish, eggs (Grass fed). Stick with grass fed meats and animal proteins because they are higher in the good stuff and lower in the bad stuff. Better Omega 6:3 ratios. Cattle tend to have their fatty acid ratios messed up when they are fed grain for too long.
Vegetables – Eat these bad boys all day long.
Nuts, seeds – A fantastic snack. Protein + fat = you feel full forever. They are high in calories though, so make sure you aren’t eating cupfuls.
Part 2: Chill Bro! Take it Easy On These – Safe to Eat Regularly But Reduce For Fat Loss:
Chill Bro! Take it Easy on These Foods
Whole grains. Many people think they are getting healthy by eating vast quantities of whole grains, but in reality they’re finding themselves with a high-carbohydrate high-sugar diet. Also, many people are gluten intolerant and don’t even know it — I don’t eat any bread or pasta anymore because of this. It took me until I was 24 (and a lot of illness & medical testing) to find out. Sometimes you don’t know how good you’ll feel until you eliminate something.
Brown Rice – If you are eating clean but still aren’t dropping weight (and you eat a lot of rice or whole grains) cut down the amount of rice.
Sweet potatoes/potatoes – High calorie/carb. Fine normally, but for extra fat loss cut down on these.
Fruits & Fruit Juices – Just get rid of fruit juices altogether, eat fruits sparingly
Alcohol – Alcohol is fine to drink (don’t be an idiot…), but know that beer has more carbohydrates than wine. If you’re obviously out boozing alot and getting a spare tire, you already know what you need to do.
Part 3: Eat These and You Will Die (Slowly)
Things in packages – This is basically the entire center of the grocery store. Aisles 1-15. All shitty “food.” I’m not even really going to go into things you should specifically avoid because I don’t want you wasting your time. Avoid things in packages as best as you can. The scary thing is that even foods marketed as “health foods” contain dyes, aspartame, acesulfame potassium, and many other things you don’t want to be consuming.
Refined Carbohydrates – White bread, white flour, white rice. White things. Refined flours started out as whole grains – and then the husk and bran (all the stuff with nutrients, fiber, etc.) was removed. Then it’s bleached so it can be white. The same is true of white rice which is bleached then polished. White rice is a staple all over the world because it’s more attractive, shelf stable, and cooks quicker — not because it’s healthier or “more natural.”
Obviously Fake Non-Foods – Things you know you should not be eating. Sodas & soft drinks, chips and packaged garbage, oreos and milanos (save those just for break-up times.)
No Starvation, No Calorie Counting, No Hunger.
I want to bring up one key point here, as to why I’m so against the low calorie movement (which doesn’t work, anyway) — if we naturally ate what we wanted, when we wanted, until we were full, but we still gained weight and got fat, how would we still be here as a species today?
This is why I want to draw you to the idea that “it’s not how much you eat, it’s what you eat.” Let’s face it, if cave men were chomping down on doritos and pasta 2 million years ago, we might not be here today. Or we would be born diabetic with never before seen rates of Cancer and heart disease.
Calorie restriction doesn’t make sense though – because how would people before us have known what to each – and how much – without digital scales, charts, guidelines, dieting advice, etc.? They didn’t have all that. They just ate when they felt hungry and ate until they didn’t any longer.
Usually when people transition to eating real food, they find themselves eating until they’re full but still losing weight. That’s how it’s supposed to be.
Fortunately, reducing calories, counting calories, splitting hairs & cutting down on fat are not a part of this lifestyle, because they don’t work.
Eat Food When You Want To
One of the key things is that you will eat when you want, you will feel full, and you will still lose weight.
“What!? How is that possible!!” You might ask.
“Real food” is often 1/10th the caloric load of fake food you find in the center of the grocery story. It also is often naturally low-sugar, and (sometimes) low-carbohydrate.
Part 2:How to Dominate Your Food When You’ve Tried Diets Before But Failed (Sticking to Any Diet 101)
All “dieters” make the same mistake. Actually, just about anyone trying to make or break a habit makes the same few mistakes:
Starting too much, too quickly or doing things that require overcoming too much inertia (effort)
Not seeking to understand the “why” behind the habit (remember how I said I became a creepy regular at a coffee shop for over a year, and realized I didn’t actually want coffee, I just needed social interaction? Sometimes you don’t actually want the coffee.)
So let’s talk about this more, because this is the most important part of this entire article
#1 Starting too much, too quickly.
Why is it that every dieter, upon the first week after the new year, goes to the gym for an hour, or sometimes two hours? The past few weeks at my gym have been packed with young college guys lifting weights, who are trying to look like they’ve been lifting weights for years and years (But obviously just started). They’re throwing huge weights over their head, struggling, and almost losing control. The same is true for the dieters that say “I’m going to do 5 hours a week on a treadmill, starting from week 1!”
Stupid. It’s too much. It’s like yin and yang — have you ever noticed the friends that are very “fiery” about activities or relationships — jumping in obsessively and investing an unnatural amount of time upfront — are much less likely to stick with it later on? I know you may be excited, I know you might have just watched that 5 minute motivational youtube video, but curb your enthusiasm for a hot sec in favor of creating sustainable habits.
How you fix it:
A. Reduce Effort & Inertia. Start off with the easiest, smallest change possible that takes the least effort. For example, working out at home takes less activation energy than driving to the gym to workout. The farther your gym is, the less likely you are to go to it. That’s why I’m a huge advocate of home workouts if you’re motivated to already workout. For dieting, many people complain about cooking their own meals. So instead of cooking every night, just cook two nights a week. On Sunday I’ll usually cook 3/4 of my food for the week. Or forget cooking. Just focus on eliminating soda or fruit juice from your diet… only on Mondays. Easy enough right? You can binge again Tuesday. Gradually increase this to include more days.
B. Make The Smallest, Most Effortless Change. Instead of going to the gym for an hour that first day, if you’re lifting weights, just do 5 sets (total). That’ll take 20-30 minutes. Or do 5 minutes of cardio. That’s it. It should feel easy. The point is to start low and then consistently increase the amount of time or repetitions. You want to keep your gym experience as consistently enjoyable as possible. When I started meditating as a kid I never started with an hour on the first day – when you surpass your skill level you just end up feeling discouraged. I meditated for one minute the first day, and then increased it by a minuscule amount of time every day.
C. Stay in Flow. Flow, as described by Mihaly Csikszentmihalyi, is the state where life is often more enjoyable for us. We feel challenged but alert, aware, and alive. We feel like we’re growing. Based on several decades of research, Doc. C found that the best way to stay in flow was to take up an activity or hobby that falls somewhere between boredom (too easy, not enough of a challenge) and anxiety (way too hard, discouraging, this tennis player is kicking my ass). In other words, your exercise should be “just right” (like Goldilock’s porridge). It shouldn’t be so long or hard it’s discouraging and you never want to go again, it also shouldn’t be so easy that it’s boring. In other words, you should be having FUN. This is the secret to staying engaged.
#2 Not understanding the “why” behind your habits
Why Do I Keep Doing This!?
For over a year I was a creepy daily regular at a coffee shop. The interesting thing was that I was never a big fan of coffee in the first place, but still I managed to crave this daily experience. After about a year of hanging out there daily (and getting to know everyone working there), I observed another creepy regular. This creepy regular had the habit of snooping on people’s conversations and interrupting them like a needy child, so he could get some attention. And then I thought “Mother of God, that’s me!”
I realized that I was actually craving social interaction by going to this coffee shop every day. My day job was on the computer (so I had zero social interaction), and I moved to a new area (so I had zero friends), so I was totally starved of people. It took me a year to realize why this habit had subconsciously formed.
These are two times of the day I noticed myself snacking a lot and looking for something sweet. The first, the afternoon, was around one of the quietest parts of the day at work. I was looking for something to do, would get bored, and would go upstairs to eat a cookie. At the time I didn’t realize that I was bored and just wanted something to do – I thought I was actually having cravings. But when I sat down for just a second and asked “Wait, am I doing this because I’m bored or because I really want a cookie?” I realized I was just bored at work. Going for a walk or getting some fresh air worked just as well.
This kind of self-awarness is the skill to have when you’re trying to improve your life or make/break habits. Without self awareness it’s almost impossible to realize why we do things when we’re doing them.
The secret to breaking bad habits though, lies on one formula:
Remember the three parts of every habit: the cue, the routine, and the reward.
Bad habits truthfully are very hard to permanently eliminate. Instead, the way to get rid of them is to replace them with a different routine:
Keep the same cue (in the example above – feeling tired and bored).
Change the behavior (in the example above – grab a coffee, instead of a cigarette)
Keep the same reward (Yay! Awake and not bored anymore)
Okay, I Understand I’m Supposed to Create Habits Instead of Using Willpower — Any Other Tips to Make This Easier?
Oh yeah, and there’s one other HUGE tip.
Go with the 80/20 rule. The 80/20 rule basically states that 80% of your results will come from 20% of your actions. In other words, it’s a method for minimal effort, maximal return.
You don’t need to eat perfect 7/7 days of the week. Is that ideal? Yeah. Is it realistic and possible for most of us? No. Here’s how you account for that.
Putting the 80/20 rule in action. The first way to implement this 80/20 rule is, on certain days, begin changing your habits and switching to a better diet. For example, Monday-Thursday you are going to begin employing the dietary habit changes (see above), and first eliminate all fruit juices for Month 1 (Just for Monday-Thursday). Month 2 you are going to eat a protein breakfast first thing upon waking up (just for Monday-Thursday). Fri-sunday are still cheat days for those months. Go crazy. Eventually you can extend this rule to include 5 or 6 (or 7) days of the week, so that 6/7 days you are striving towards better dietary changes, and one day you can go crazy on the milanos.
The whole point behind this is that you don’t need to eat a perfect diet all the time to see amazing results. And in fact, striving for perfection and the 7/7 days of awesomeness will probably set you up for failure.
Remember, the best “diet” is the one that doesn’t feel like you’re dieting. Make the necessary adjustments.
I’m Overwhelmed, Can You Simplify It For Me? (5 Easy Actions)
Alright, to sum up this entire article into a couple key points would go something like this:
Eat protein within 30 mins of waking for breakfast. Even though there’s only weak evidence linking eating breakfast to a lower BMI, I suggest eating breakfast to help maintain a more stable blood sugar which will prevent sugar cravings. Why protein? Same thing – it keeps you fuller, longer. I usually eat 2-4 oz of chicken, 2 eggs, some cashews, and then sometimes orange juice (with protein powder).
Avoid all liquid calories, especially fruit juices. Liquid calories don’t leave you as full as solid calories so it’s much easier to consume a hell of a lot more. Liquid carbohydrates are also more fattening than solid carbohydrates because of their quicker effect on blood sugar — yes that includes fruit juices too. Fruits are fine, as long as you’re not eating 5 oranges a day.
Eat some protein & fat at each meal. They will keep you full and highly reduce the chances of over-eating. I eat about 4oz of animal protein (or fish) every single meal.
Absolutely no white carbohydrates. See explanation above.
Use the 80/20 rule – keep one (or a few) cheat days. It’s much better to adhere to a the diet 80% of the time (and you’ll get results) rather than adhere 100% of the time for a while and then relapse.
Kick Some Ass And Let Me Know How it Goes
That’s pretty much it — have any questions? Hit me up in the comments below.